Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Malinky and the stalker

WARNING: The Tweetybird has indicated that I cuss like a drunken sailor. With this post, I feel it may be necessary to give you a head's up that it may contain a wee bit foul language...

Recently, some of you may have noticed that I stopped posting the show. This was brought about by what can only be described as...a stalker. This wasn't a bully, or someone just harassing me but a fucking stalker in the truest sense. I have stalkers and I'm fine with that as the internet just seems to promote the concept but this person was in my face, following me where ever I went on the net.

Here's what happened in a nut shell without the drama: "She" stole my vids and got pissed when I busted her. I posted a comment on the video that the original was on my channel and if the poster likes videos they should favorite them instead of reposting them as their own because it degenerates the quality. She didn't like this and created a video(s) stating I harassed her. None of it made sense because her video indicated exactly my point but didn't exactly show I was bothering her, as she claimed. She then opened another account to pretend to be me...stealing both my profile content and some LLS videos. When I busted her a second time, she created very aggressive videos with content that was most unbecoming, all the while using my profile pictures and name... If you pay attention to me any, you'd know that I can scrap if necessary and don't back down easily. So when she trashed my name, I could give a rat's ass. Use Craig's picture in a negative fashion and I see red. I had to stop commenting, posting, etc in order to figure things out...

I didn't want to walk away, but did only because I thought it was best.

I am truly overwhelmed by the responses of kind words in support, love, pleas, confusion, anger and devotion...with a splash of song dedications. I've really never had this sort of experience before and it made the situation all the more harder to deal with. If people didn't care, it would have been much easier to walk away...but some of you did. No, a lot of you did. Some of you cared so much you did your best to have these evil videos removed. This was a most meaningful gesture and I greatly appreciated it.

Thank you for your loyalties and kind words of support. If it weren't for them, I would have been gone... When I started posting Craig's show, it was never about me but about the humor of His Chattiness spreading across the land and around the world. I've worked very hard to make it all about him but apparently some of you have managed to obtain an affection towards me. I take this as a great honor but know you are all Craig's fans. I'm very thankful my hobby has managed not only to spread Craig but has also created a world-wide community of his fans. As a fan of Craig's, this makes my heart swell... I can't allow some silly cow to kill that. The point being that there was way more love than hate and therefore I see no reason why I shouldn't continue forward...

BUT PLEASE NOTE: I don't want to discuss this drama anymore. I don't want to give this person any more attention than they deserve. I can't allow such a situation to slow down this train's momentum any further. We all seem to be working hand in hand, to protect the channel and we should continue as such. If you see something like this again on YouTube, I suggest you block the ch and flag the video, as I plan to do. I will do my best not to respond to her nasty comments of nonsense and I request that you do the same. But then again, can you really play by my rules? I can't even play by my own rules all the time.

52 comments:

  1. Everyone knows your videos are the only good videos, anyway! Keep up the good work! It helps, especially when I fall asleep early like a crazy person. *gasp* I knoooowwwwwwwww! silly me! lol x

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  2. Malinky your lovely beginning video yesterday put a big smile on my face and now I'm just feeling a lot better!! Thank you for being there!! Believe me it stopped being about the video & we were worried about you!! Welcome back & let's just put this black memory behind us!! Love you & can't wait for your lovely comments beside the videos!! We were simply suffering yesterday!! We needed directions from our cult leader :)

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  3. Yes, yours are the only quality vids for the LLS. So glad you are reconsidering. As long as your physical safety is assured, and the only negativity is virtual, then yes, keep focus on the positive comments. There are many of us who appreciate your work in promoting Craig's show.

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  4. this is well written. I'll repeat what everyone says on Twitter, you are the cult leader of our little group of Craig worshipers. We were all worried about YOU, not the broadcasting of Craig on YT.

    <3

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  5. your subcriptions appear right on your homepage everyday, therefore you've got over 10,000 fans AT LEAST that only watch your stuff. Everybody knows that you're the only person who uploads quality Craig vids, with amazing quality! nobody gives a shit about people who try and rip you off. You're a first rate version of yourself, keep it up.

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  6. Well put, Malinky. That's why we love you!!!
    We are not just a bunch of fans of Craig's, we have become a community, and you are not only part of that community, you are part of why it is and what it has become.

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  7. This is the best news I've heard all year! Malinky, you saw what we did for Craig in the Tweet-a-thon, and I don't think I speak only for myself when I say all that love and support is behind you right now. Expect showers of love when you post the first new video!

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  8. We got your back Malinky!! Please keep spreading magic and joy through your videos!

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  9. can i get an amen and an ear-to-ear smile?
    bless you, mal. (:

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  10. Glad to see you back, and yes we did obtain an affection for you! You've got quite a team behind you and I'm sure we will all do our best to play by the rules.

    "You can't order pizza, man, wer'e on heroin." "Oh, oh, & now we have rules? We have rules? We take heroin AND we have rules?" - Craig Ferguson

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  11. It's so nice to have you back, Mal =] We really did miss you. Not just 'cause you weren't posting the videos, but you yourself. I know that I was concerned about your physical being. But, as you said...it's the past now. So, we shall continue to follow our almighty cult leader and the gorgeous chattiness that is Craig Ferguson!

    Love you Mal =]

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  12. Yay, Malinky! Hooray!!
    You make my life better. After a tough day, I so look forward to my dose of Craig to keep me going, and nobody does it like you.
    xoxoxo

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  13. Mal- Sorry you're having to deal with this troll. You want I should eat her for ya?

    Your pal ~ Wavy

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  14. It is wonderful to hear from you. True we are all Craig fans but I think it's safe to say, we all have a special place in our hearts for you and your dedication. You've helped foster a community of people with a common love and it helps unite us wretched humans in this dark world. I send you my sincere love and appreciation.

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  15. Last fall the network that broadcast Craig Ferguson in my area replaced it with The Steve Wilcos Show with no notice or explanation. While the change was good for my insomnia--because I refused to watch the network after that--I missed the funniest guy on TV. It wasn't until a few weeks ago when I did a search for the very opening you featured today as the best ever, did I discover your uploads. I have no idea how you do it or even how to subscribe...but I am viewing your uploads. Thank you!!! After a marathon of catching up on the episodes I have missed, I don't have to say up until 2:30 in the morning which is even better than watching on TV. Thanks again.

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  16. I apologize, Mal'. I've been watching your uploads almost as soon as they are viewable, and managed to not see the crap fgoing down. I would've had your back had I known before it nearly ruined things.

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  17. Mal, What can I add that others haven't expressed. I always knew though your base that subscribe to your channel, myself included have become somewhat protective and teritorrial of what you bring to us , especially those who don't have access to the shows on a daily basis. I'm lucky to be able to see the shows, but it's fun to check out your channel and get a second dose, see funny comments etc. Yes, it's all about Craig who we adore, and it's about u too, and anyone that comes along to try to steal our joy has hell to pay! You do what u have to do and so will we. Xoxo

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  18. I may have started out as just Craig's fan, but it wasn't hard to become more than a bit attached to you as well. The love and affection you have for Craig matches -- if not exceeds -- my own, and is evident in the dedication and effort you go through every night to spread the Craig!Love throughout the world. And that's just part of what makes you awesome.

    In another internet life, I was in a similar position as you are now, and I know how exhausting and demanding and disheartening it can be sometimes, having to deal with jerks and expectations, and all the negative aspects of fandom, so I really REALLY appreciate the time and effort you put into all of this.

    That said, while I am most pleased that you will continue to bring Craig to YT, I am even more happy and relieved to know that all is well with you. {{{Mal}}}

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  19. From my point of view you had only "disappeared" for less than a day, but I was surprised that I missed my anticipated dose of Craig as much as I did!

    I think you're taking the right approach to this odd situation you've found yourself in, and I hope it sorts itself out soon, and that you get through it unharmed.

    I'm so glad to see you're continuing your crusade to get Craig out to the people who love him! Hurray for Malinky!

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  20. Malinky, it is so wonderful to have you back! I was really worried about you, and I'm ever so glad that you're okay now. And I, for one, will gladly follow your rules, since that seems to me to be the best way to deal with the whole situation. I'm just glad that in the end, you listened to the love over the hate, because there is a whole lot of love for you here.

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  21. With your help Malinky I know I will never miss a show. I want to finally say Thank You for the effort that you put in to post the show.

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  22. Malinky, I am so glad that you are back! No other person is better suited than you for this job: we need somebody as passionnate as you. I plan on helping you as much as I can with spammers and other evil Internet-dwellers! Thank you so much, you have no idea how much good your daily uploads bring into my life! :)My hope is to continue to enjoy Craig for as long as possible and to continue to enjoy him in great company, i.e. with the wonderful community you have established with your channel!

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  23. Dear Mal,

    worried about you, not the vids, as everybody - but that's a good thing, isn't it?
    THANK YOU again, again, again

    Be well.

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  24. Oh, I didnt know that was the reason! Well there are a lot of freaks out there and with the anonymity of internet they tend to pop up all over. I read a lot about Richard Norton and his bengal cats and how a stalker messed things up on YouTube. Sad, but unavoidable it seems, as soon as you get attention on the net. Anyways, keep the spirits up - remember; for every weirdo you have thousands and thousands of true fans who really appreciate what you do! We love you for bringing Craig Fergusson to us who cannot watch him on TV the only way we can enjoy his humor - The Web!

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  25. So glad to see you back! I think we all missed you just as much as the videos, it's such lovely news to hear that you're continuing with our community and we're all behind you! I had such a long day yesterday and to wake up and not only see the show posted on your channel but that you were posting was such a joy as always.

    Love ya Mal!

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  26. Welcome back Mal. All is good in Fergusonland once more... :)

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  27. Thank you, thank you, thank you for posting the vids of my favorite cheeky monkey, Craig. I'm so glad you are OK. Your hard work and commitment are greatly appreciated.

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  28. Mal, your videos are not only of highest quality to Europeans and North Americans alike, I could've sworn I've seen a couple of your vids (mainly the puppet openings) on a couple of major news blogs of late, because they like both the clarity of your vids and the bite-size portions you make.

    Chin up, now you know a bunch of people have your back.

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  29. You're ONE and ONLY, Malinky!
    It's wonderful to have you back, please stay strong. Thank you a milion times for all you're hard work, we love you, do not forget that...:)
    Craig's fan from Makedonija, kisses...

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  30. Mal, it's great to know that you're back and that I finally know what the true meaning of this mess was for you, and how you handled it so well. I had been away for a little while (trying to find internships, semester just started, that sort of thing) and was trying to figure out what was going on with Twitter being a buzz and all.

    I always try to advocate for people who support a fandom so much so that they contribute it to others through YouTube or by some other means. Some would look at this and say "get a life" or "that person's crazy" but I say that this is true devotion, no matter what its for. And I continuously applaud your efforts to share Craig with others who do not live in the U.S.

    Thank you so much for everything you do!

    --Sierra (Coffee24Luvr on Twitter, burningchisox on YouTube)

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  31. When I say you hadn't posted Monday's episode I was worried you got shut down or something. Your prompt posting of His Chattiness is something we rely on when we need our daily fix! Thank you for what you do and keep up the good work!

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  32. Malinky- It is truly A GREAT DAY FOR AMERICA, now that you are back. We all enjoy your channel and to have it gone would be sad but to not have you here, with us each day, tweeting and sharing yourself, is something that would be even sadder. I'm glad you followed your heart and came back. YOU ARE A DEAR FRIEND! Thank you for all your hard work you put in to your "hobby", this channel.

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  33. Phew!!!! The leader's back, we can all sigh in huge RELIEF!!! Did we overwhelm/scare you with the response? I think we were all going through the five stages of grief at once!! I just wanna repeat what I commented on your account, which is that watching the show on your channel is like watching it with friends in someone's livingroom. You're the host AND a great one. And yes, your awesomeness leaks through!!! We all adore YOU.
    But I'll play by the rules and change the subject: so, did you see the iPad? When I saw it I imagined Craig saying "Whaaaaaaaaaaaa?" Lots of hugs from Montevideo, Uruguay, Pierinapi.

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  34. But it is the great day for Europe also! "Why?"- I here, you say... Shut up, I'll tell you! Because the community You've created, Malinky, is world-wide indeed! That community is here when You need it! Never forget that! Best regards from Poland.

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  35. Jubilations in the form of firecrackers and whippersnappers (whatever they are) are in order. The queen of the Craig-alites has had her muse, and now she sees clearly.

    Welcome back Mal, and long may your services be hailed across the globe!

    Owen-Hunt*

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  36. Without you there would have been no Tweet-a-thon and I wouldn't have all the lovely fellow-Fergite-followers & followees that I have today!

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  37. I'm glad you are better now! Ferguson fans rejoice the Cult Leader has returned!

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  38. VERY glad to hear you decided to ignore the troll and live your life and do what you love and enjoy, Mal. Very impressed, handled it with class. :)

    Now then, whaddya call a lesbian from outer space? Alien Degeneres! COME ON!

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  39. Thanks so much for hanging in there! Your hard work is greatly appreciated!

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  40. Glad to see you back Malinky. Don't let the bastards get you down. I am so thankful that you have taken spreading the word of his chattiness to the world. You keep many of his fans outside of America know that it is a great day for America even when it is not. I am also thankful that as an American that I am connected through this worldwide community that you due diligence has fostered. Good for you Mal. Keep up the good work as usual.

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  41. Sorry I'm so late with my comment but just want to add my two cents that we are all with you, Mal. This stalker is guilty of identity theft, of plagiarism and of outright theft and should be indicted and jailed. We love you, Mal, and are ready to come to your defense whenever you need.

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  42. Hey Mal, I haven't been on the youtube channel for awhile cause I've been watching the episodes on tv but now I'm gonna start flagging the fraud's videos to support you.

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  43. From Pompeline:
    Hope everything will be OK in the end. Love you for the work you do, giving us Craig every day. Lots of love from Norway!

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  44. I'm on your side. It's what we call fam in my bit of the world and you're part of it. So glad to have you back!

    AmbivalentDeath

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  45. I am glad you decided to stay - not only because you are the only source of Craiginess in this cold Italy, but also because i've come to appreciate your sense of humor which transpires in the comments you make when posting each video.
    i have been working so hard these past few weeks i had no chance to realize you were under attack. i am sure we'll all do our best to protect the channel - and if that's not enough.. yeah well. let's say we can call a few italian cousins to come and "solve" the stalker problem :D [just kidding of course!!]
    keep up the good spirits and thanks as always for all that you do!
    Laura

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  46. Thank you for all your hard work!

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  47. It's dogsouth from youtube. You are reacting to this way better than I could have! That chick is clearly off balance. Thank you for uploading the lls vids ;)

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  48. I'm sorry about what happened. Um, I didn't know where to post this but I guess you would be interested that CF has a tweetybird now.

    http://twitter.com/craigyferg

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  49. yikes...what a horror...i enjoy your site and the effort you put into your collection...thank you for it...and sorry about the issues...be safe!

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  50. Enjoy TLLS on your youtube channel. Hope it gets back online soon .

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